“Who Am I?” is the question many people wonder but few dare to ask.I’m known for my bright eyes and dimpled smile. Are they really just a mask?A mask used to hide, shield and cover all of the hurt and pain.Sometimes I wonder if it all will one day just drive me insane. My Eyes!Continue reading “Who Am I?”
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Random Thoughts (in no particular order)
My mind is always so busy (probably way too busy I’m sure) all the time; thinking, analyzing, researching, meditating, etc. Every once and a while I have to release the random thoughts in my head so here goes . . . • All of my married friends wish they were single and my single friendsContinue reading “Random Thoughts (in no particular order)”
Ten Things Men Should Know About (Real) Women
I saw this and thought it was too funny. I will admit that I agree with a lot of what she is saying. 1 ) Yes, a man should put some effort into his grooming, but just so we’re clear, the only kind of polish he should ever sport is on his shoes. Never theContinue reading “Ten Things Men Should Know About (Real) Women”
The Five Love Languages
I know everyone is familiar with, or at least, has heard of the Five Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman, a famous marriage counselor with over 30 years experience. I have listed the Five love Languages below along with a description of each. Words of AffirmationActions don’t always speak louder than words. If this isContinue reading “The Five Love Languages”
Where are the good black men?
Over the last few months, I have talked to a lot of single black women who complain about the lack of good black men out there. They feel the good black man is scarce and very hard to find. Some of my sisters feel when do they meet a single man with potential, he feelsContinue reading “Where are the good black men?”
Zane’s Sex Chronicles
I watched Zane’s Sex Chronicles the other night on Cinemax. First, let me say that I am a huge Zane fan. I read her first book Sex Chronicles 1 and half of Sex Chronicles 2. After a while, it just started to sound the same. How many ways can lick, suck, whatever . . .Continue reading “Zane’s Sex Chronicles”
I’m back!
Hey family. Wow! It’s been way over a year since I have posted to this blog. Time really does fly. Well, the last year has been a roller coaster ride with its ups and downs. I have been praying about this blog now for a while. Asking for guidance in what direction I wanted toContinue reading “I’m back!”
What Makes You So Special?
I know. I know. Everybody thinks they are the bomb (including me) be it at home, work or wherever. Of course, most men think they are laying the best pipe ever. Most women think they are the best thing in the bedroom since the mattress was created. Yeah! Yeah! Yeah! But really, outside of theContinue reading “What Makes You So Special?”
Is It Really that Important? (Sex, Size, Etc.)
Several months ago, I got a call from a very good friend of mine telling me about this wonderful man she met. She was very excited about him. In all of the years I have known her, she has only gotten excited about one other guy that I can think of. Anyway, she goes onContinue reading “Is It Really that Important? (Sex, Size, Etc.)”
My True Essence 